Why does it take black men to make a simple word like female a derogatory comment? It's like one step down from being called a "bitch" or a "hoe". In their minds, it's safe because those two words are widely accepted as bad. So, being the ingenious little idiots they are, they came up with "females".
Worse than that, is hearing other women describe each other using the word with the same amount of disdain. Now, I will admit that when I was younger, my best girlfriends and I commonly and affectionately referred to each other as 'bitch'. But thank God for wisdom and age, right?!
I must say that this word "female" is not used -for the most part, if any- by real men. Real men know to refer to us as women, because that is what we are. Granted, way too many of us don't act like women, let alone being a lady. But yet and still, we are women.
Thank you to the men out there who know how to address us properly!
Real Life Rantings and Near Constant Neurotics from your average, everyday single mom. Average and Everyday? Yeah...in your dreams!
About Me
- Solo-Mommy
- This is my life: I am in my mid thirties. I am still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up! I have four children, ages 12, 10, 6, and 5. I am twice divorced, and still hoping the third time will be the charm. Yes I am a "helpless romantic" who just wants the best out of life for me and my children. Finally after all this time, I am actually working to get it! This is the REAL life story of today's single mother.
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