I've come to the realization that it's not the time in my life for me to be married. I've accepted the fact that I may very well finish out my thirties single. I'm actually pretty okay with that. So the guy that I'm with doesn't have to feel threatened that I want to be "walking that aisle" by year's end.
HOWEVER, is it too much to ask for a man to just be with me...and not biding his time between 2 women? Is it too much to ask for fidelity? Is it too much to ask for exclusivity? He's got a lot to work through and figure out in his life, and so do I. So, I'm not expecting a ring or even a live-in. I would just LOVE for it to be only two of us in this relationship.
That's all I ask.
Yes. Yes. I know. It does appear I should seek that ELSEWHERE...because Dante is too content "having his cake and eating it too" right now to be what I ask for!
Real Life Rantings and Near Constant Neurotics from your average, everyday single mom. Average and Everyday? Yeah...in your dreams!
About Me
- Solo-Mommy
- This is my life: I am in my mid thirties. I am still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up! I have four children, ages 12, 10, 6, and 5. I am twice divorced, and still hoping the third time will be the charm. Yes I am a "helpless romantic" who just wants the best out of life for me and my children. Finally after all this time, I am actually working to get it! This is the REAL life story of today's single mother.
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