February 2, 2010

All I Ask...

I've come to the realization that it's not the time in my life for me to be married. I've accepted the fact that I may very well finish out my thirties single. I'm actually pretty okay with that. So the guy that I'm with doesn't have to feel threatened that I want to be "walking that aisle" by year's end.
HOWEVER, is it too much to ask for a man to just be with me...and not biding his time between 2 women? Is it too much to ask for fidelity? Is it too much to ask for exclusivity? He's got a lot to work through and figure out in his life, and so do I. So, I'm not expecting a ring or even a live-in. I would just LOVE for it to be only two of us in this relationship.

That's all I ask.




Yes. Yes. I know. It does appear I should seek that ELSEWHERE...because Dante is too content "having his cake and eating it too" right now to be what I ask for!